“She is not making progress.”

“She is regressing.”

“She is so anxious.”

“Unable to work towards goals.”

“Danger to self and others.”

These are just a few of the things I have heard people say about Courtney this week. These words come from individuals who are meant to support Courtney in her growth and development.

These comments have deeply affected me in various ways. Honestly, it feels like some have given up on her. I don’t place blame on those who made these remarks. Yes, we may be facing challenges. However, observing Courtney navigate through these challenges while others stand aside has left me feeling powerless.

But then, a beautiful moment happened.

Joe and I were leaving to go out for dinner. I said good bye and love you to Alyssa then said good bye and love you to Courtney. As I walked away from Courtney, I suddenly heard “love you” come from her beautiful voice.

It was more than just the words “love you.” It was a powerful reminder that she is flourishing. She is progressing. She is doing everything she needs to do.

We will continue to navigate through these challanges. Some may feel they need to step aside, but her family won’t. And like we have in the past, we will come out stronger on the other side.